Sober in Spain – tips, practicalities, and deep thoughts on sobriety

It’s been three years since I quit drinking. Three years, three and a half months. One thousand, one hundred and seventy-four days of sobriety. At the time I

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Holy Thursday, Golden Calves, and God-Shaped Holes

Last night I had dinner with Bob, a fan of my podcast. Bob’s a big Texan who flew tankers in Vietnam. You know, those huge airplanes that refuel

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Developing discipline – feasting, fasting and crushing your excuses

I’m turning 42 in a few days. These birthdays always give me a lot to think about. A couple of years ago, for example, when I was about

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Sober in Paradise – an update from the Bahamas

“Put a strawberry daiquiri in my hand right now!” “I need, like, four Bahama Mamas.” “Oh look, there’s Margaritaville!” “I’m so ready to hit the bar.” Welcome to

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Madrid is better than Barcelona, and other sober, serious thoughts

Visit Madrid in spring. I dare you. Visit Madrid in spring and walk around the center and then come look me in the eye and tell me it’s

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Seeking Transcendence – a podcast bro’s spiritual journey

Bling bling! Morena’s alarm starts beeping on the floor next to our bed. She rolls over, hits the off button, and falls back asleep in 10 seconds. I’m

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Sobriety, salespeople, and Introvert Hell in Dublin, Ireland

All day the payroll salespeople have been arriving. Both payroll people and their partners are greeted enthusiastically when they reach the hotel, then whisked off into a conference

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